Marriage begins, of course, with the proposal. Ideally, you only do this once in your life – so make sure it’s a moment you’ll both never forget. That’s why it’s so important how you propose to your partner.

Don’t forget the in-laws

Asking your future bride’s father for her hand in marriage is a traditional sign of respect. While some people may consider this old-fashioned, it still shows that you value her family. Of course, it’s not mandatory.

Think about when you want to propose

Timing is crucial. There’s no perfect moment, but make sure you’ll have time together afterwards – not rushing off to work or an appointment. If you’re going on holiday soon or celebrating an anniversary, that could be the perfect time to propose.

Think about where you want to propose

The location is just as important as the timing. You’ll always remember the setting and the mood. Think about what your partner would like – the beach, the forest, or somewhere more private? Also, consider whether they’d enjoy a public proposal or something intimate.

Let others in on your plan

If people are helping, like restaurant staff or event organizers, inform them beforehand so everything goes smoothly.

Have a backup plan

If your beach proposal is ruined by rain, it’s good to have a plan B – either a different spot or another day.

Popping the question

Once you know when and where, it’s time to plan how. This moment will be talked about, so make it special. Think about what you want to say. You’ll probably be nervous, so speak from the heart. Practicing in front of a mirror or with a family member can help.

Make it unforgettable

Women love sharing how romantic the proposal was with their friends – take the time to plan it perfectly.

Ring

A beautiful engagement ring is a must. If you’re unsure of her style, ask her sister or mother to help.

Some creative proposal ideas

Photoshoot

Plan a love shoot and surprise her during it. You’re both dressed up and the moment is captured forever.

City trip

Take her to Paris and propose on the Eiffel Tower, or go to Venice and pop the question in a gondola.

Sport match

Is she sporty? Propose during halftime on the field. Be sure to get permission first – and think about whether she’d like a public proposal.

Cinema

If you both love movies, ask the manager if you can show a short film before the movie starts – with your proposal.

The most important thing is to speak from the heart and express how you feel. Think about how she’d want to be asked – but make sure to stay true to yourself too.

Proposing to your boyfriend

Traditionally, the man proposes – but why shouldn’t a woman do it? If you want to marry your boyfriend, don’t wait – take the initiative!
It used to be that women could only propose on a leap day, but those days are over.
If your boyfriend doesn’t like rings, you can give him a nice watch, bracelet, tie, or book instead. It’s the thought that counts – not the gift.